Husband is not a sexual perversion

Not long ago, my mother-in-law died suddenly. To this end, we are very sad the whole family to her husband in the evening of the incident and I want to make love. It puzzles me. I would like to ask, he is not some sexual perversion?

Yunnan Lili
Lili reader:

In fact, your husband at this time require that sex is a normal phenomenon. Special moments in a person can not be inhibited to think and love for each skin in order to give vent to their emotions, which inevitably there are the psychological and physiological reasons.

From a psychological point of view, when people fear most in need of affection and protection; sad time, the most looked forward to the comfort and support. Is precisely the intimacy and sex to satisfy this point. In the event of frustration, people will use a variety of psychological defense mechanism to heal wounds. The sex is the use of psychological defense mechanism of regression and the role of fantasy to achieve this purpose. The role of the so-called regression is ripe to give up the skills and means to adapt and restore the previously more naive approach to cope with difficulties or to satisfy desires. Therefore, some people in an extremely sad time, as children like the embrace of love hope to be caressed, with a view to escape from suffering, or to obtain comfort. The role of the fantasy is that the people in control of life through physical and emotional partner in order to obtain sufficient imagination to gain self-esteem and satisfaction illusory. Therefore, as soon as some people are frustrated, often in the sex has become "interested" scene, through which a sense of sexual self-satisfaction of the injured has been soothing the soul.

From the above we can see that when people desire in a special intimacy and love, is not abnormal behavior, but a normal demand, as a partner should be given to understanding and comfort.